tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9392341516873807312024-02-18T17:38:48.203-08:00Kierea in Italia!Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633609164447040161noreply@blogger.comBlogger39125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-939234151687380731.post-86806808864830039352012-07-19T15:48:00.002-07:002012-07-19T15:48:41.237-07:00The End is Near at Hand!Nothing like waiting until the last minute to finish up everything! I just completed my very last formal interview and it feels great! I've been working on formal and informal interviews for the past two months now and have learned more than I ever imagined I would. The hard part now is conveying everything I learned. I think I have come to terms with the fact that there are somethings that you can only learn, or at least fully understand, through experience. I have already started working on my final paper and it is surprisingly easy to write--the hard part will be keeping it concise and articulating well the many things that I have learned. :)<br />
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The interviews have been such wonderful experiences. Since I have worked as a Freshman Mentor for the past two years and am starting my master's program for Marriage and Family Therapy in the fall, I have grown pretty accustom to asking people, that I don't necessarily know very well, personal questions or details about their lives. That said, I am still surprised by how open people have been with me, especially when I have had to use a translator; in those situations, it's like they're telling intimate details about their lives to two strangers--not an easy thing. <span style="background-color: white;"> </span><span style="background-color: white;">I interviewed one girl who had been with her boyfriend for six years, had two children, and was only 18! After the interview, she told me that she it was a wonderful experience and that she told me things that she has never told people and things that her boyfriend didn't know. Her interview was probably the most dramatic, but she wasn't the only person who told me something like that afterwards, most did actually. :) </span><span style="background-color: white;">This experience is amazing in and of itself, but what makes it even more meaningful is that I truly believe that it has changed me for the better and has helped prepare for my future career, and just for my future life in general.</span><br />
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It is funny what living in a different culture for three months can do to you, I feel like aspects of how I live and what I think have changed without even realizing it. I was having a conversation with a BYU student about courting and gender roles (my research topic), and the things I said were surprising me. I forget if I mentioned this before or not, but when I first got here I told myself, nothing is better or worse, just different, BUT--deep down--I still held onto the idea that my previous held/American ideas were better. Now, I find myself thinking more like an Italian in some aspects. Honestly, I really feel like I've kind of been able to find my own culture--I obviously understand American culture and I feel like I've come to understand the Italian culture as well; more than just the culture surrounding my topic, but just the culture in general. I respect both cultures and have gotten to a point where I can look at them and compare them more objectively. I can see the good, and some of the bad; I can see how each way of life and style of thinking work. I guess I have really just come to really internalize the idea that there aren't things that are better or worse about either culture, they're just different.<br />
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I truly am sad to go home at this point. I really thought that three months would feel like a long time, but my plane takes off in 3 1/2 days and I have such mixed feelings. I feel ready in the sense that I came her and made the most out of my experience. I know that I will be able to look back on my field study and not have regrets and have to think, 'Oh I wish I did that or took that opportunity.' At the same time, I have had such wonderful experiences here that I'm not quite ready for them to end--I have friends here, I have a way of life, I have a family...those are hard things to say goodbye to. I realize I'm going home to family, friends and a way of life that I've known twenty two years, but even still...<br />
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I was just hanging my clothes out on the clothes line and hand washing the dishes, and as much as I hated the fact that most Italians didn't use drying machines or dish washers when I got here, I have a feeling that I will miss those aspects of living here. There is a lot I will miss. That said, it's on to the next stage of life. My last few days will be great--going in to Rome tomorrow, sleeping on the beach with some friends that night and spending my last few days enjoying amazing people and the wonderful culture. :D I am so glad I chose to do a field study, where I've actually been able to get immersed in the culture. This was truly the experience of a lifetime!<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633609164447040161noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-939234151687380731.post-39802821763506821412012-07-03T06:24:00.001-07:002012-07-03T06:25:10.791-07:00Life is Good!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="color: white; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I am happy to report that things have really been looking up since I got my bag stolen. From the moment it happened, I tried to find the silver linings, but I am truly surprised at how many there have been. I went to an activity at the church that night and had an opportunity to talk to the missionary couple for the GANS (YSA) in Rome, I got a 'mom hug' from the Sister Krueger and asked Brother Krueger fora blessing. From that moment, everything took a turn for the better. Someone did a bad thing (stealing my bag), but I feel like I can hardly go a few minutes without someone doing something nice and reminding me that people really are good.</span><br />
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<span style="line-height: 20px;"><span style="color: white; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> There were a couple students staying with my host family the weekend after my bag got stolen, and I decided to head into Rome with them Monday morning--they wanted to see some of the tourist sites and I needed to get my passport and pick up the money that my mom wired me. I got to the American Embassy around 1:30 to get my passport and had to wait until 2 to get in. The guards, in typical Italian fashion, were more than friendly--the first two I met offered to show me around Rome afterward, one offered to come to Bracciano and visit me, and a third suggested I meet him for drinks that night haha. I was allowed inside the embassy, under 'emergency circumstances', I went through security, and I made my way up to American affiars where I was denied a passport because I didn't have cash on me (and they wouldn't let me pay with my parent's card number). In a crunch for time, I went down to pick up the money that was wired to me; however, I was informed that I couldn't get without a passport. So there I was, lost for a solution--no passport without money, but no money without a passport. I went back to the embassy, explained my situation and they agreed to make me an alternative document that I could use to pick up the money, but then told me that I would have to come back the next morning to pick up my passport--which I did. Quite the hassle, but everyone was so nice, I actually think I might go back to visit again now because I've gotten to know so many of the employees! :) </span></span><br />
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<span style="line-height: 20px;"><span style="color: white; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Now, I think a change of subjects is in order--it happened, and I've moved on! I've finished half of my interviews and have the other half scheduled! I should be done by this weekend and I couldn't be more excited! I feel like I chose the best research project in the world, it's something I love to talk about and to learn about. I feel like I could write my final paper right now if I wanted to, and that I'm just doing the formal interviews to get the last checks off my Field Study To-Do list. I wish I had my computer everywhere and do a formal interview on the spot; I think that if I had brought a consent form a few more places that I would actually be done with my interviews, but no worries--I'm looking forward to the ones I have coming. :)</span></span><br />
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<span style="line-height: 20px;"><span style="color: white; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Challenges at this point....honestly, after getting past the huge hump, it's hard to even complain. I think more than anything, I'm just sad that I only have three weeks left here. I can't believe how quickly time has passed!</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: white; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 20px;">Lessons I've learned: Like I said before, people in general are just good--I love how I can come to a new country, live away from my family and friends and still feel so loved. I've definitely had my moments where I've felt alone, I think anyone would. That said, I think Italians are some of the most kind, open, and loving people. I decided that I didn't want to do homework this morning, so I just road my bike into Bracciano city and walked all around the city (it's not huge). After about 30 minutes, I made some new friends, grabbed some fruit juice with them at a nearby bar (not American type bar, what we would consider more of a cafe), and invited them to come play water and beach volley with me and some more of my friends tonight. Really, I don't know how I could complain about life.</span><br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633609164447040161noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-939234151687380731.post-35542526176279647992012-06-22T05:30:00.001-07:002012-06-22T05:30:15.845-07:00Worst Day<br />
I feel so dumb right now, I don't even know how to articulate it. Unfortunately I have a feeling that once you read the rest of this post, you will be shaking your head at me in disbelief. I don't even know why I'm writing now, probably because I can't get ahold of anyone and don't know what else to do. I was planning on going to Cinque Terre tomorrow with my friend Emma, I packed up all my things--passport, documents, money, train tickets (that I bought for her and I, for about 150 Euro), clothes and threw a towel on top because I was going to the beach today with some other friends and planned on taking a train straight from there to Rome, staying the night in Rome, and then getting up bright and early for what surly would have been the best weekend of my trip. I was waiting at the near the fire station for Giulia to pick me up when I realized I forgot some papers that I could use for my research while I was away. It was a tug a war inside my mind what to do--return to the house (it was only 5 minutes down a dirt road) or go without the papers. I decided to go down the dirt road, but I didn't want to make Giulia wait. Since I've actually only seen one other person use that road--my neighbor--I decided to slide my bag in some buses and run home so I wouldn't waste time. WORST DECISION OF MY ENTIRE LIFE. I ran home, grabbed the papers, ran back--all in about 5 minutes. I passed the spot where my backpack was, realized it, and turned around to grab it. It wasn't there. My word, obviously I should have never let something carrying so many important things--passport, documents, credit card, money, train tickets, my camera, even my diary/field journal and a letter to a friend--out of my sight. I wish a million times that I was capable of going back in time--not making such a dumb mistake, but I can't now...<br />
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I ran into a nearby fire station and tried to explain my problem to 6 men who didn't speak any English; one man came to help who spoke some english. So, here I am, stressing, with a lump the size of Texas in my throat, and feeling more dumb than I ever have in my life because what happened was 100% my fault. It wasn't an unlucky thing, I honestly think I would feel better right now had someone robbed me face to face.. I jotted a few numbers down before my phone completely died--Diego and Mara's (host family), my bishops, Emmas, and my friend Guilia--who was on her way to get me. My phone died, the firemen called the police, who came. They also didn't speak English. Now, I am definitely learning Italian and getting better, but trying to explain something like this in Italian was probably one of the most difficult things I have ever done. Diego's dad, bless his heart, came to the station and we drove to the police station to file a report. I just can't believe how things changed so quickly from being so great to so miserable. I have no documents, hardly any money, and the worst feeling in the pit of my stomach. I don't want to talk to anyone because it was such a dumb mistake, and I feel so miserable already that I don't think I could take someone giving me one of those 'are-you-serious?' looks. I wish I could talk to my mom, but although Emma was able to help me get ahold of her and let her know what happened, my phone is now dead and I can't get to her through Skype. I am in serious need of a 45 minute long hug, but don't even feel like I deserve that right now. :/<br />
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I'm trying not to be pessimistic, since the moment it happened, I tried to find a solution and the silver lining. But right now, I'm lost for both... I am so grateful for everyone and their help, but so sick that I did this. Ah, how a split second decision and 5 minutes can change everything so quickly. I dread talking to anyone.. I have this complex where I don't cry, but I think that if anyone made me feel worse, by reinforcing how dumb of a mistake I just made was or showed me any sympathy, I think the tears would come. I don't mean to be melodramatic, and writing this out has helped. Guess it's time to put on my big girl panties and stop feeling sorry for myself. I did this, I take responsibility, I will figure it out. This isn't going to ruin my field study. There's got to be a silver lining, somewhere...<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633609164447040161noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-939234151687380731.post-30444938831162966692012-06-07T05:57:00.002-07:002012-06-07T05:57:53.563-07:00I'm Alive!I'm Alive! And doing wonderfully! :) We FINALLY got WiFi at my house, which will definitely make communication a lot easier. I think last time I wrote, I was complaining about how hard some things were. I recently spoke with a friend whose mom read my blog (Hi Sister Blake:) and relayed to Audrey that I was having a difficult time. So, to start things off, I just want to let anyone and everyone know that I'm happy here--which I guess probably shouldn't come as too much of a surprise, I mean, I'm in Italy for goodness sakes. :) That's not to say that there aren't difficult times, but that's because it's real life here--not just a vacation--and what is life without trials? (That was a rhetorical question, but I guess the answer would probably be: A Chick Flick).<br />
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I have dedicated my first month to TONS of informal interviews, which were incredibly vital to my project. Part of me feels like I know most of the answers to my questions now, but if I hadn't done those 'informal' interviews, I assure you that I would have asked the wrong questions. I want to understand dating and courtship for young adults in Italy, which--I have learned--is quite (I want to say extremely, which is probably more true, but I'm trying not to exaggerate) different from the dating in the states, and then--of course--WAY different from the dating culture at BYU. Even the wording in my drafted questions didn't really make sense for the Italian culture. For example, there really isn't a direct translation for 'date,' a word that seemed obvious and self explanatory to me. Whenever I asked people about what a date is like in Italy, I had to explain what I mean; and since being here, my explanation for a 'date' has changed to something actually occurs here. I definitely am thankful to have my host brother here, who is fluent in English. The negative side is that we speak a lot of English, so I am not practicing my Italian as much as I could be. The upside: He can explain so many things to me about Italian culture in a way that I can really understand, he helped me translate my consent form, and can help me with some translating!<br />
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The best thing that has happened here, for myself and for my project is making friends. I actually met a girl named, Giulia, while I was studying at the library a few weeks ago and we've become pretty good friends. She is an absolute sweetheart and invites me to do things with her and her friends, which has given me the opportunity to make even more friends--that all live right around Bracciano! The last few days, I've been hanging out with a girl named Gisenia--she took me all around the nearby towns, and also to the gym--for 3 1/2 hours! Pretty intense, but I needed the work out, was able to meet even more people there, and got a taste of another aspect of the Italian culture. So, to state the obvious, things are really looking up. :)<br />
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My biggest challenge now is getting everything I need to do, done. I conducted my first official interview a couple days ago, which was 1) Great, and 2) made me realize a few things that I need to change in my questions--it's really a continual work in progress. I'm taking my 'mid-semester' retreat next week (which seems wayy too soon!), but I get to go to Sicily, so the only complaint connected to that is that I have less than 7 weeks left here! It is truly amazing how quickly time flies! So right now, it's a balancing act, which is easier to do when I'm not in a new place and eager to see and experience everything. If only I didn't have my social psychology class to do while I was here (last class I need to 'officially graduate; since I took 11 credits towards my field study winter semester, that means I have to take 1 last psychology class this spring/summer so that I can start grad school in the fall!).<br />
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I think one of the biggest lessons I've learned here, that I thought I knew pretty well to begin with, is the importance of being open minded. While life in Rome is extremely fast paced, life in Bracciano isn't as much. Convenience isn't the motivating factor in people's lives here--my host family takes time to prepare meals, to eat meals together and talk for a long time, and to hand-wash every plate, spoon, pot, and pan--even though they own a dishwasher (which I've never seen used). Being early isn't as important. Buying some groceries everyday is normal (I swear the reason that the food is so good here is because it's so fresh!). I've learned to like it. Even with 'dating'/courtship in Italy, at first I had to actively remind myself not to be judgmental and to take the attitude that, 'it's not better or worse here, just different,' even though I felt like it was worse. Now, I've grown to see the beauty in it, and think I might be developing a preference for it--which is something I NEVER expected. It's the same with a lot of things, but rather than preferring one thing over the other, I have really been able to find the good, and sometimes the bad, in each. That has come a lot with taking the time to understand the reasons that motivate behavior. Many Italian people that I have met don't ignore the benefits of convenience, they would just rather spend quality time with family and friends--doing dishes together is a way to spend quality time together--one that I didn't appreciate until recently.<br />
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I really do think that everyone should go experience a different culture, and not just have it as a bucket list item that never gets crossed off. I have had so many people tell me how jealous they are that I am in Italy. My advice to them is simply: Do It! There will always be a million excuses to make, and a million reasons why it's better to wait. It would have been better for me, in a lot of logical ways, to stay in Utah or live at home in Washington this summer. Rather than spending all my money, I could have saved it; I could be doing more research to prepare for Grad School in the fall. If I had stayed home, I would be there to see my little brother get back from his mission, and gotten to see some good friends get married. Basically what I'm saying is that circumstances are rarely perfect, but you've got to go for what you think you want and need. That was true for my decision to come here, and that's true for my experiences here. It's not easy to put myself out there, but what worthwhile things were ever easy? I am learning a lot here, making a conscious decision to be happy and outgoing, and loving it. :D<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633609164447040161noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-939234151687380731.post-15759233630839487552012-05-09T14:45:00.000-07:002012-05-09T14:45:19.620-07:00Italy: the good and the badI have been living in Italy for a little while and getting a lay of the land, I feel like I did a pretty good job and perceiving some of the road bumps in my study, but I am still facing a lot that I did not expect. Meeting people seems like a pretty difficult thing to do, unfortunately. I have met a lot of young adults through church activities, but they live all around Rome and the surrounding areas, so even if I did want to spend time with them and learn more about it, that is a very difficult thing to do. I really need to meet some young adults in this town. I was hoping that my host family would know a lot of people and be able to connect me to some friends, given that there were to young adults living in this house (only one other now) that are 24 and 26. Unfortunatly, they haven't lived here long, and don't know a lot of their surrounding neighbors. No one in the home I am staying in works in the town of Bracciano, so they don't have those connections either.<br />
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I was introduced, however, to a girl named Morgana, who lives in Bracciano, by my host mom, Mara. I was telling Mara about what I was trying to do with my study, and she was racking her brain trying to think of someone. Then she mentioned that she knew a girl named, Morgana. We were in the car when she was telling me this, and who would you guess we see walking just a few minutes later? Morgana! So she pulled over, I got out of the car, and she started to drive away. I realized it was only to park, but that still left me alone with a girl, and who seemed like her boyfriend, that I didn't know. They both spoke a little bit of English, and with my Italian we were able to introduce ourselves. She was really nice, and so was her boyfriend. She told me to get her number from my host brother and give her a call so that we could do something. Thank goodness! I really need to call her, not only for my study, but just for my sanity--I need a friend, one that I can go chat with for 30 minutes when I need a break, ya know?</div>
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I guess that is my biggest challenge so far here, just feeling alone. Not that I am always alone--which I guess I am at this point. I've realized though that, at least for me, it is easier to be alone, than to feel alone when you are with a big group of people. The language barrier is really getting to me. I can get my point across in some situations, but not all. And even though there are people here that speak English, I really want to be able to communicate with the people who don't and understand them. Basically none of the girls here speak English, so if I want to be friends with them, I need to really work on my Italian. There's a couple things that are really hard about it, 1) That I went from being one of the smartest people in all of my classes, to feeling like one of the least intelligent people here, just because I can't articulate or express what I want to. 2) Because I don't feel like I have a voice here, I guess it's kind of like what I've heard from other people, you kind of lose your personality a bit here with the language barriers. It was really embarrassing for me when my host mom, Mara, started explaining to everyone at church, what I was doing here--that I was in Italy to study people. Everyone kind of seemed put off by it--that it was weird. I wanted so badly to just express myself, because mainly, right now, I just want to make friends. It's hard now, my host Mom thinks that I am really quiet, mainly because I don't know how to express myself-especially to here (she speaks so quickly) , so I guess I just don't. That's definitely something I need to work on. Mistakes are the best teachers, that's what I hear! If only it was as easy to do.<br />
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<br /></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633609164447040161noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-939234151687380731.post-10688371269844510112012-04-09T11:16:00.000-07:002012-04-09T11:16:37.783-07:0015 Days!<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh0PtYaBwjfM5vBDRI0KVRejJGGKEg47FSZvJX6Jj4jIiH7g0SIqcwAHaM-bs3h64fhsuRsKhpBIw75rEEQhgLdGu_yIpIsy9nQyLj5NL3pKpw0_R1F4R2_S5t-55ytqv0cbLSKgjqjBqA/s1600/ambiguity.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh0PtYaBwjfM5vBDRI0KVRejJGGKEg47FSZvJX6Jj4jIiH7g0SIqcwAHaM-bs3h64fhsuRsKhpBIw75rEEQhgLdGu_yIpIsy9nQyLj5NL3pKpw0_R1F4R2_S5t-55ytqv0cbLSKgjqjBqA/s1600/ambiguity.jpg" /></a>It's true, I leave the United States in just 15 days! I really can't believe how much time has passed and how quickly it has gone by! I'm definitely a little bit nervous--just about everything coming together--but I am more excited than anything else. This is going to be an experience of a lifetime for me, and I want to get the most out of my time in Italy as possible. I feel like I'm at this funny point in life where I am on the brink of entering into a new phase of life; I'm leaving so much behind and everything in my future is new--it's unknown! I have 3 days left of classes at BYU, I will take my finals, I will graduate and walk in Commencement on April 20th. Then, in 4 short days, I will leave my friends, my family, and everything that I am comfortable. I will live in a foreign country for 3 months and come back to a new set of unknowns: grad school.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjJ0MHfF1j-QITIahrWgsIR8E7_evcOa5kh5x3Igpb6aFKDOni9DsqGsyreKIzJoWwRkPAxCXGA5PpQ11js7Fccs4aTiV5hNMR0vcjcAW_BHsILk0zOw3vdOwyeirI-Si2hGx0Oxwx4bys/s1600/ambiguity+subway.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjJ0MHfF1j-QITIahrWgsIR8E7_evcOa5kh5x3Igpb6aFKDOni9DsqGsyreKIzJoWwRkPAxCXGA5PpQ11js7Fccs4aTiV5hNMR0vcjcAW_BHsILk0zOw3vdOwyeirI-Si2hGx0Oxwx4bys/s320/ambiguity+subway.jpg" width="246" /></a>I have really been trying to plan things out and be prepared, but I think what my field directors have been telling me for months is finally really starting to sink in, "I need to be okay with ambiguity." I'm still trying to determine if my mindset has really shifted that much by choice, or that if it has shifted because it had to--because I realize that as much as I try to control something, I can't (like my housing for instance--still up in the air). Either way, it has. I don't know where I'm going to live, who my friends will be, how I will do with communication, or even how I'm going to go grocery shopping. One thing I do know though is that I will figure it out. I think everything is so ambiguous now because I'm not there, once I'm actually in Italy, my life won't be ambiguous because I'll be living it. Does that make sense? Right now my future is ambiguous, even tomorrow is ambiguous--I can plan my day out (which I usually do--hour by hour), but unexpected things will happen and I will be fine; I am doing all I can prepare now, and I will figure out every curve ball that is thrown at me when it comes. That's how it should be. I played softball for 8 years, and I think the analogy works out very well. You don't start swinging--or even determine where or how you will swing the bat--until the pitcher releases the ball; if you did, you would strike out just about every time. I think that by understanding that concept, I can better grasp what living with ambiguity means. It doesn't mean I'm not prepared, just like a batter who has spent hours in batting practice, I have spent dozens upon dozens (probably more) hours preparing for this field study. And with the skills and knowledge I've developed, I will step up to the plate in Italy and take the curve balls as they come. :) I hope this all made sense, because I really feel like I've just had an epiphany.<br />
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Being okay with ambiguity doesn't mean that I'm okay slacking off and not preparing, it means that I've prepared, and because of that preparation, I am ready to handle ambiguity--to thrive in and with it.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633609164447040161noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-939234151687380731.post-86022710484728843312012-04-05T12:07:00.000-07:002012-04-05T12:07:36.486-07:00Historical Immersion!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi8u80rTkhg5zf7RGath7iqTvc0kVsMry_JxCEp4-jPbe_zslrh8C6OCm3qFwV7BdoD7Do5GNkQPZpP6QOHIDqDsz9r03hyphenhyphenUdKDZFEow1NQmDHzHQ7PurQI4nVCjmSJ1hvbHDdSJf_eh7w/s1600/4437093885_d60b9d4071.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi8u80rTkhg5zf7RGath7iqTvc0kVsMry_JxCEp4-jPbe_zslrh8C6OCm3qFwV7BdoD7Do5GNkQPZpP6QOHIDqDsz9r03hyphenhyphenUdKDZFEow1NQmDHzHQ7PurQI4nVCjmSJ1hvbHDdSJf_eh7w/s320/4437093885_d60b9d4071.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Rome is a culture with such a strong history--one that I definitely want, and need, to learn about to truly understand the Italian culture. I was talking to a woman yesterday who recently had the opportunity to travel to Italy and she was going off about how you can just <i>feel</i> the history in some of the ancient buildings. I've always felt similarly with things like that. I was reading/looking at some ancient manuscripts for a humanities class a year or two ago and felt such a connection with the past--someone, or maybe several people, spent their time making those manuscripts hundreds or thousands of years ago, and they were preserved so that I could experience them. I feel like I will have similar feelings about the ancient architecture and artwork in Rome. Yes, I want to be immersed in their current culture, but in order to understand the present circumstances, I feel that it is so important to learn about the past. I want to not only see the art and architecture around the city, I want to experience it, hopefully with friends that I've made in Italy that have a better understanding of it and can help me understand it's importance to them. I guess it's not directly related to my project, but it's related to my overall experience which is the most important part, isn't it?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So, although I won't be at museums all day, they are an aspect of Rome that I want to experience--so, to get the most bang for my buck, I've looked into some potential passes that I can purchase</span><br />
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<ul><li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">3 day pass</span></li>
</ul><ul><li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">free transportation </span></li>
</ul><ul><li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">free admission for 2 museums or sites, exhibitions and events</span></li>
</ul><ul><li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">can be used at more than 40 monuments</span></li>
</ul><ul><li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">costs 25 euros</span></li>
</ul><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Vatican and Rome Card</span><ul><li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">admission & no waiting in line for the Vatican Museums and Colosseum</span></li>
</ul><ul><li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">includes transportation, open bus Roma Cristiana, itinerary audio tours and maps, traveler medical assistance and dicounts</span></li>
</ul><ul><li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">discounts for admissions to most other monuments and museums in Rome</span></li>
</ul><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Appia Antica Card</span><ul><li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">good for 7 days from first use</span></li>
</ul><ul><li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">free admission to the Baths of Caracalla, the Villa of the Quintili, and the Tomb of Cecilia Metella</span></li>
</ul><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Biglietto 4 Musei - 4 museum combination tickets</span><ul><li><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">free admissions to each of 4 national museums of Rome; <span style="background-color: white; line-height: 18px; text-align: left;">Palazzo Altemps, Palazzo Massimo, Diocletian Baths, and Balbi Crypt</span></span></li>
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So, these all seem great, but I definitely feel like they're more geared towards short, tourist trips... I just bought an international student ID card, maybe I'll look more into what that offers...I am going to be there for 3 months, I don't want to try to crunch all of my historical exploration into 3 days, or even 7, I'm hoping that I can find an option that spreads it out a little more. I guess all I can do is keep my eyes and ears open!Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633609164447040161noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-939234151687380731.post-45247515768649455692012-04-04T10:14:00.000-07:002012-04-04T10:14:39.689-07:00Safeguarding My Money<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I've got my cell phone plans almost all figured out for Italy, the next thing I need to worry about is money. I feel like my trip is so close at hand that I'm really getting down to a lot of the logistical details of my trip--which is great! It's also a little bit taunting. There are SOOO many little things I can do now, before I get to Europe, that will make my experience a lot less stressful when I'm actually there. The trick is trying to determine what all those little things are, and then making time to actually do them. Like I said before, I've got my cell phone situation figured out, and I have bought my International Student ID card--2 checks off my list. Now I'm trying to figure out how I will withdraw money, and when I have the money, how I will keep it secure.</span><br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgsaew5sNpamUwgO1Pf1bg5q242PAWDhUyG6xUH9TYLsWtl7FtdPg7DrXxptVT6KgX458G1zgIBfYuGN_xpX5hB9r5bQ266gokAZDlGM6VXrC-KWw3KBnyf_AqF6gYwfejUMixGcvbD9oY/s1600/bancomat.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="305" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgsaew5sNpamUwgO1Pf1bg5q242PAWDhUyG6xUH9TYLsWtl7FtdPg7DrXxptVT6KgX458G1zgIBfYuGN_xpX5hB9r5bQ266gokAZDlGM6VXrC-KWw3KBnyf_AqF6gYwfejUMixGcvbD9oY/s320/bancomat.jpg" width="320" /></a><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I was reading online (</span><a href="http://goeurope.about.com/od/moneymatters/a/atm-card-fees.htm">http://goeurope.about.com/od/moneymatters/a/atm-card-fees.htm</a><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">) about withdrawing money in Italy. There is a 250 Euro limit per day that I can draw out, and I've found that in the long run, it is better to withdraw larger amounts of money. This is because each bank charges different service fees and has associated costs for withdrawing money outside of the United States. This website tested several different debit/credit cards in Italy and fond the top four ones for international use. I was relieved to see that my bank, Wells Fargo, was among them. Sadly, it wasn't thee best--there is a $5 fee for all withdrawals, which is more than the 1% fee charged by a couple of other banks. Because of that, it will be important for me to make sure to always withdraw the maximum amount of money, so that I waste the least amount of money possible from service fees. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">A problem that comes with withdrawing the maximum amount of money is, of course, safeguarding my money. Italy is somewhat well known for their pick-pocketers, and purse snatchers. The advice the website suggested was to keep the majority of my money and important documents (passport, etc.) in a travel security wallet or passport holder, worn under my clothing (which may be slightly uncomfortable), and then to carry a small amount of cash and one credit card in my purse, pocket, or pack.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">One great piece of advice this website had was to take down the foreign phone number for each atm and credit card so that if it is lost or stole, I can report it. They also suggested making a photocopy of my passport--will do!! Obviously, I will be staying with a family, so I hope that I will be able to leave it there--in a safe and locked location.</span><br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjYInp0WRieDnBZ0-8RepEtxwOZiv-3uI6JqfpMRAnTlrXVKTkqf29zEX9ogO09drLUsmuEKLKZC2PRiD_b4dtizJTyTxVtRZVJ6vKrki0a0Ryv6A9ZHyvQdcb_p5LsmzvIh1L0uRZuu8s/s1600/pick+pocketer.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="251" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjYInp0WRieDnBZ0-8RepEtxwOZiv-3uI6JqfpMRAnTlrXVKTkqf29zEX9ogO09drLUsmuEKLKZC2PRiD_b4dtizJTyTxVtRZVJ6vKrki0a0Ryv6A9ZHyvQdcb_p5LsmzvIh1L0uRZuu8s/s320/pick+pocketer.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Beyond that, some typical smart advice was things like: carrying my purse in front of me where I can easily see it, being aware of my surroundings, not putting my purse, day pack, or camera anywhere where someone could take it, and to close all zippers. Another precaution is to be aware of robbers use of diversions--like having someone hold a piece of cardboard in front of me to read, or using a child as a diversion while I am pick pocketed. Honestly, I don't think I would have thought much of that--being a foreigner, I think I'd have probably taken the time to read a sign or talk to a child. Ah, there is just so much to be aware of--these are great things to know! (</span><a href="http://goitaly.about.com/od/italytraveltips/qt/pickpockets.htm">http://goitaly.about.com/od/italytraveltips/qt/pickpockets.htm</a><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">)</span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633609164447040161noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-939234151687380731.post-9943311041637933582012-04-02T11:18:00.000-07:002012-04-02T11:18:28.538-07:00Cell Phone<span style="font-family: inherit;">The time is getting close and closer for me to go to Italy, and there are still a lot of little things that I really need to figure out before I get there, one being cell phones. I have talked to a few different people about purchasing a cell phone in Italy, but no one has given me direct advice, or connected me to any resources where I could get advice. So, I took it upon myself to do some research. :)</span><br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg5taIVi9eKSfug4MdjH4pDyNTVBbOTf7bwzcP0T6RmVW_wAmNhdlXKMT-A84yCVUXfKSnJlfdyx6xT40NnbSXb2UGexuCXDSGyMg-0Q-3sBTQcgXq6oz6V_sE3ETSjr6RLyUENDDWc5kg/s1600/best-cell-phone-plans-2-11ep8kq.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="227" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg5taIVi9eKSfug4MdjH4pDyNTVBbOTf7bwzcP0T6RmVW_wAmNhdlXKMT-A84yCVUXfKSnJlfdyx6xT40NnbSXb2UGexuCXDSGyMg-0Q-3sBTQcgXq6oz6V_sE3ETSjr6RLyUENDDWc5kg/s320/best-cell-phone-plans-2-11ep8kq.jpg" width="320" /></a><span style="font-family: inherit;">First of all, I think there are some huge benefits to having a cell phone abroad. Since I am not just a tourist, and will be immersed in the culture--with no other American students (at least none that I know of at this point), I am going to have to rely on myself, and the Italians I meet, to get around; they will be my social network. An important part of a social network is communication. I can't name one friend I know that does not have a cell phone in the U.S. While I cannot make a overarching statement about people in Italy, I am guessing that most--if not all--young adults there also have cell phones. Having a cell phone will not only be useful for getting around the city (when I get lost, which I know will happen), but it will be useful to hear about events going on. The first month I am in Italy, before doing any research, I hope that friends I meet might let me know of things that are going on through </span>texting<span style="font-family: inherit;"> or calling (which is common here), rather than hoping I run into them so that they can tell me. When my research does actually start, having a cell phone will be a useful way for me to connect with participants and check in to make sure that we are on the same page as far as the timing and place of meetings goes.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Clearly, having a cell phone will be a huge benefit, but 1) What kind do I get, and 2) How do I get it?</span><br />
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<b><span style="font-family: inherit;">Purchase a SIM card for use with an unlocked GSM cell phone </span></b><br />
<ol><li><span style="font-family: inherit;">must make sure the phone is 'unlocked' and compatible with other SIM cards</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: inherit;">SIM card determines phone's number and allows access to the service that particular SIM card supports</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: inherit;">Buy FOR (not in!) the country</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: inherit;">purchase from a dealer in the US who specializes in selling and renting cell phones for use abroad</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: inherit;">if you get it early, the number is embedded in the phone and I can give that number to friends and family; active SIM card when in the country</span></li>
</ol><b><span style="font-family: inherit;">Rent or buy an unlocked GSM cell phone and prepaid sim card from Cellular Abraod</span></b><ol><li><span style="font-family: inherit;">local Italian number for calls in Italy</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: inherit;">Free incoming calls</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: inherit;">fixed low rate for calls to the US</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: inherit;">all </span>menus<span style="font-family: inherit;"> in English</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: inherit;">24 hour a day service</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: inherit;">include foreign adapter for charger</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: inherit;">come with small prepaid initial credit (4 Euros = 23 minutes calling in Italy, 11 to US)</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: inherit;">it's possible to buy additional prepaid minutes directly from Cellular Abraod when I place my order</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: inherit;">can easily add time while in Italy</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: inherit;">UNO mobile service</span></li>
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<span class="boldhd" style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 18px;"><span class="boldtitle"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Well, now I know! Next step is probably talking with my parents and those that have lived in Italy, and figuring out which option is best for me</span><span style="font-family: arial, 'courier sans-serif'; font-size: 16px;">.</span></span></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633609164447040161noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-939234151687380731.post-70489810878478467202012-03-30T15:50:00.000-07:002012-03-30T15:50:49.527-07:00Italian FashionI was talking to a girl who recently went on a field study to Italy (I think I've mentioned her, and this story before). She said that she felt really uncomfortable in Italy a great deal of the time; so, she ended up dying her hair brown so that she would fit in more. I definitely think that that was a dramatic move, but one that was obviously important to her. So, to help myself fit in--and not stick out like a total tourist--I decided to look up Italian fashion. And, while you might think this is a young woman's excuse to look at clothes, honestly, fitting into the culture is extremely important for me to have a full immersion experience, and even to do well on my project. I've talked with Sarah, my field director, and a girl in my class, Caitlyn, about style down there, but Sarah was in Rome during the fall, and Caitlyn spent all of her time in Northern Italy. Hence, I don't really know what types of clothes I should bring. I know my packing options will be limited, so I want to make sure that I what I do pack is appropriate for the weather, the culture, and so that I feel comfortable.<br />
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To do this, I decided to look up Roman fashion blogs, articles, and magazines so that I can get a good idea of what I want to pack. One thing I do know is that Rome is extremely humid in the summer. Anyhow, without further ado, Roman Fashion!<br />
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I looked up an article titled "What to Wear for the Summer in Italy" on usatoday.com and here were some of their tips:<br />
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<ul><li><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 15px;">Italy travel writer Jessica Spiegel writes, "Truthfully, you can pack and wear whatever you want in Italy ... but it really is smart to think about what you are wearing and alter it slightly when visiting. You’ll fit in better, and feel more at home." </span> </li>
<li><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 15px;">What suits most Americans in the hot season is too informal for Italian fashion; go for longer shorts, dress and skirts; sandles are suitable; stilettos are extremely common! (Whaaa?)</span></li>
<li><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 15px;">Italians will often give up comfort (being to hot) rather than look sloppy; it would be a good idea to do some shopping down there.</span></li>
<li><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 15px;">While open "breezy" clothing is acceptable, it's always smart to bring a sweater with you to cover up in case you go into more formal places, like churches, where respect is necessary</span></li>
<li><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 15px;">No red tonails! Apparentely paiting your tonails in bright colors may look trashy to an Italian--this could be the best advice I've gotten so far</span></li>
<li><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 15px;">Steer clear from big backpacks, it's much more appropriate (and less touristy looking) if you bring a small purse</span></li>
<li><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 15px;">Black is probably the number one color for Italians--it looks good with almost everything and is easy to accessorize with</span></li>
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Snap! I'm so excited!!!!! Yes, it will be tough, but aren't all things worth achieving?Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633609164447040161noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-939234151687380731.post-25399800770308688622012-03-26T09:43:00.000-07:002012-03-26T09:43:42.993-07:00So Many Questions AND SOME ANSWERS!Yes, I have been figuring out more about how I will conduct my field study by the day, but here's the thing: I'm still a bit naive (for lack of a better word) when it comes to international travel and a lot of specifics about Italy. So, for this blog, I am going to draft a list of questions that I have about traveling and living in Italy. My goal will be to get these questions answered. :)<br />
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<ol><li>How should I handle my money when in Italy? </li>
<ol><li>There are lots of options, often best to carry cash. </li>
</ol><li>Where/how should I carry it?</li>
<ol><li>You can buy money holders that are discrete. </li>
</ol><li>Should I carry cash, or use a credit/debit card and take money out when I need it or pay with that?</li>
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</ol><li>What are the best places to meet young adults?</li>
<ol><li>Young adult ward</li>
<li>Just in the town; networking. I was talking to a girl who did a similar project to mine on a field study and she said that she doesn't know how she would have survived without a facilitator and someone who spoke the language to connect her to other people. Makes me a bit nervous...</li>
</ol><li>What big safety precautions should I make sure to take?</li>
<ol><li>Don't go places alone, just use common sense. The girl I was just talking about actually dyed her hair brown to blend in more; that said, she was staying in Naples..</li>
</ol><li>What is travel like between different cities in Italy--is the train the best way to go? Should I purchase a Eurorail pass?</li>
<ol><li>There is the train, the metro and the bus system. I can buy a bus pass for about 32 Euros a month and get all around Rome (or where ever I end up staying)</li>
</ol><li>How much should I pack for 3 months?</li>
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<li>Always best to pack light (I guess that was obvious)</li>
</ol><li>How much does it cost to bring a suitcase on a plane?</li>
<ol><li>about $25 for 1st bag and $50 for 2nd.</li>
</ol><li>What are common things that people do during the week?</li>
<ol><li>No one had a solid answer, it just varies by where you are; in Rome young adults usually spend most of their time at school or work, similar to here.</li>
</ol><li>What are common things that people do on the weekends?</li>
<ol><li>Again, so variable, I didn't get a great answer.</li>
</ol><li>On Sunday?</li>
<ol><li>I spoke with a couple RMs who said that the young adults are not very into going to church. Members of the LDS church do, but outside of the church it is not as common.</li>
</ol><li>What is the church like in Italy?</li>
<ol><li>Quite long, most young adults don't go--according to the RMs that I spoke with.</li>
</ol><li>Are most Italians strong Catholics?</li>
<ol><li>Not the younger generations.</li>
</ol><li>How do people dress in Rome?</li>
<ol><li>Similar to here, appearance is definitely important to them.</li>
</ol><li>Will my curling iron/straighter work in the outlets?</li>
<ol><li>Nope, I'll need to buy an adapter. </li>
</ol><li>What are some MUST SEE things in Italy?</li>
<ol><li>The list is too long to put in here, but anywhere I can go with the locals are the best--they can show me the little known places</li>
</ol><li>How is Rome different from a small town? Is it a lot less traditional? </li>
<ol><li>A lot more of the 'melting pot' feel, but the RMs said that I will still be able to pick up on a ton of Italian Culture.</li>
</ol><li>What is the difference between Northern, Central, and Southern Italy?</li>
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<li>Northerners are definitely more educated and wealthy; Central (Around Rome) is much more diverse, and the South is described as having a lot of heart. :)</li>
</ol></ol>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633609164447040161noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-939234151687380731.post-41568371526381221362012-03-18T19:03:00.000-07:002012-03-18T19:03:00.372-07:00What Questions to Ask?I am going into the BYU travel agency tomorrow and purchasing my plane tickets! Once that's done, there is NO TURNING BACK! Which, by the way, I am beyond excited about. :) So, in less than 24 hours I will have my plane ticket to Italy and, in 41 days I will be on the plane to Italy. 41 days sounds like a decent amount, but then I think about ALL I have to do and prepare for before then. I'm not going to lie--it gets a little bit overwhelming... But, right now my focus is finishing up with my IRB proposal. It's due this Tuesday and one thing that I don't have ready for it yet, are the questions that I am going to ask my participants. In class, it was mentioned that the best way to figure out what questions you should ask is by knowing your participants. The problem: I don't know my participants. I've read things about Italy, of course, but not enough to form and articulate my actual questions. Unfortunately, for the sake of getting my project approved, I have to come up with some questions--at least sample questions--for my project. So, I am going to take this opportunity to draft some. I'm going to try to do it a little bit like a free write and, hopefully, some of the questions will stand out to me that I can use for my study.<br />
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<ol><li>What are women in your society expected to do?</li>
<li>Why are they expected to engage in these roles/behaviors?</li>
<li>What are men in your society expected to do?</li>
<li>Why are they expected to engage in these roles/behaviors? </li>
<li>Is it important to you to to engage in these gender-specific roles?</li>
<li>What would be the consequences of not engaging in these roles? Cultural? Social? Personal?</li>
<li>What are characteristics that you look for in a man/woman?</li>
<li>What makes a woman a good wife and mother?</li>
<li>What makes a man a good husband or father?</li>
<li>What is a woman's role in the home?</li>
<li>What is a man's role in the home?</li>
<li>Whose role is more important in the home?</li>
<li>Who (a man or a women) is more competent with home-based tasks?</li>
<li>What is a woman's role in the workforce?</li>
<li>What is a man's role in the workforce?</li>
<li>Whose role is more important in the workforce?</li>
<li>Who (a man or woman) is more competent with work-based tasks?</li>
<li>What are your goals for the future? For work? Marriage? Raising a family?</li>
<li>What do you want your role to be in the home? Why?</li>
<li>What do you want your role to be in the work field? Why?</li>
<li>If you were unable to contribute signficantly to a home-based role (providing emotionally), how would you feel?</li>
<li>If you were unable to contribute significantly to a work-based role (providing financially), how would you feel?</li>
<li>Do you feel like is it important in Italy for men and women to engage in gender-specific roles?</li>
<li>Do you think a women not performing certain duties in the home--like raising children, cooking, and cleaning--means that she is in some ways a failure?</li>
<li>Do you think a man not performing certain duties at home--like raising children, cooking, and cleaning--means that she is in some ways a failure? </li>
<li>Do you think a woman not performing certain duties at work--like providing financially (or even protecting her family)--means that she is in some ways a failure? </li>
<li>Do you think a man not performing certain duties at work--like providing financially (or even protecting his family)--means that he is in some ways a failure? </li>
</ol><div>Well, I think this is a good start! I've realized that I have some good questions to ask, but also that my questions need a lot of perfecting. :)</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633609164447040161noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-939234151687380731.post-5126762820328669292012-03-16T12:27:00.000-07:002012-03-16T12:27:45.727-07:00Fondi or RomeAh, where do I even begin? Every conversation I have had this week ends in a discussion about me going to Italy and--more specifically--where I am going to stay, in Fondi or Rome. As I write that, the answer seems obvious: Rome. It has been a dream of mine to go to Rome for years now, and--until about 5 months ago, I had never heard of Fondi; the only reason I even know where it is now is because Fondiis where the field study 'group' was supposed to go. Honestly, I was happy with Fondi, and excited about traveling with some other BYU students to experience Italy as an Italian would.<br />
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That said, I was thankful that I had a group to go with because, well, 1) I've never been to Italy, 2) I am far from fluent in Italian, and 3) I am a single women--it's comforting to know that someone I know from BYU will have my back. Unfortunately, everyone else that was planning on going to Fondi dropped out of the program. Suddenly, I find myself with a new sense of autonomy. I was initially fine with going to Fondi, and maybe I still am, but I can't help but consider Rome. Like I mentioned before, I have always wanted to go there and there is so much culture in that city, that I don't want to go to Italy, and miss out on an opportunity to live in a city that is so rich with culture. Then, there is Fondi--a smaller town where I can engage and immerse myself in a different aspect of Italian Culture. I have had the "Pro & Con" conversation about 20 times now, and have gotten the opinion of mass amounts of people. That said, the decision is still mine. Others "make the decision," but their decision has no repercussions; my decision affects my field study, not to mention the next three months of my life, and my potential happiness. So, rather than writing my pros and cons out like a conversation (the one I've had 20 times), I am going to make a list. Hopefully seeing it will help make my decision more clear to me.<br />
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<li>So much to do--for enjoyment and for my study</li>
<li>Lots of young adults and events oriented towards this age group (which I'm studying)</li>
<li>Easier communication (?)</li>
<li>Close to the LDS church; could still go to my church and other churches of friends I make</li>
<li>Near lots of historical sites--something I can only get in Rome, whereas the beach in Fondi isn't a big pro</li>
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<li>I might not pick up as much Italian because--being a tourist site--many people will speak English</li>
<li>Potentially harder to find participant</li>
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<li>Probably easier to integrate with the community (?)</li>
<li>I would be forced to use Italian more, and pick up on more of the language</li>
<li>Maybe some sports teams (things like that to get integrated</li>
<li>Find more traditional/typical Italian families/culture</li>
<li>Near a beach <b>(might be a good place to meet young adults, but I also have plenty of beaches in the US, I don't have the sites there are in Rome)</b></li>
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<li>I would probably not get to experience Sundays there if I chose to continuing going to my church (LDS) because the ward is in Rome</li>
<li>Near a beach--maybe a lot of seafood</li>
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Ah, I feel like this is really one of the most difficult decisions I've had to make. 1) Because I am making my pro and con list on assumptions--maybe it will actually be easier for me to make friends in Rome or maybe there will be a lot more to do in Fondi. Who knows!? I haven't been able to talk to someone who has really gotten to spend a lot of time in Fondi, but I've talked to a lot of people who have been to Rome. It's a consensus that Romes is AMAZING. I obviously need to make my decision as soon as possible, or I am going to end up with no place to live in either city. Hmm I really had hoped writing this would clear things up in my mind, but honestly....I don't think either city is better, just different. I almost feel like I need to make a decision, then sleep on it over the weekend and see how I feel. If it feels good, I'll go with it, if I'm not feeling good about it, then hopefully that will be an answer as well. The toughest part is that it's really a decision only I can make..sure, other's can share their opinion (and I am GRATEFUL for it), but...in the end, it's my (potentially) once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, I want to make the most of it.<br />
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I just spent 20 minutes thinking about this and.....<br />
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THE DECISION: I'm going to Rome!<br />
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I feel good about it in the moment, we'll see how it sits :)Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633609164447040161noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-939234151687380731.post-32341429044023092552012-03-14T07:31:00.002-07:002012-03-14T10:13:11.306-07:00Living Arrangement<div class="MsoNormal" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: #539bcd; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 15pt;"><b><span style="color: #bbbbbb; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif; font-size: 13.5pt;">Living Arrangements<o:p></o:p></span></b></div><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><tbody>
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Sarah has been a sweetheart and is looking into me potentially living with the lady she lived with this past semester, Caitlin is also in contact with a missionary friend is who is living in Rome, and hopefully something will come of that. But, to be honest, it kind of adds to my stress a bit not to have control over this aspect of my trip. I think I am going to start trying to do some of my own investigative research. I know that the BYU field study program discourages students from living with member families, but honestly, safety is a HUGE concern for me going to Italy by myself. That's not what I was planning on when I signed up for the field study, and I would feel so much more comfortable living with a family that shares the same beliefs and standards with me. I may try to get in contact with the bishop of the Rome ward and maybe he can connect me with a family...Maybe, if I talk with him, he can set me up to live with a family that aren't members, but that he knows well and trusts. Either way, I only have a month and a half to figure this all out, and considering how quickly the last 2 weeks just shot by, this is something I don't want to sit around and hope happens. I am so appreciative for all the help of everyone, and I really do hope some of those things go through, but until they do, I think it is my responsibility to start making things happen. I'm going on a field study by myself, I am going to be alone in a country, trying to speak a language that I am far from fluent in--I guess now is as good as time as ever to really start relying on myself--hoping that I don't have to do everything alone, but planning on it.<br />
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Welp, the 8:00am hour has hit, and I'm going to start making some calls and working on my check list items!<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633609164447040161noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-939234151687380731.post-77420590559519732092012-03-12T07:31:00.000-07:002012-03-12T07:31:02.846-07:00Stress<h3 class="post-title entry-title" style="background-color: #539bcd; color: #bbbbbb; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 20px; position: relative;">Stress</h3><div class="post-header" style="background-color: #539bcd; color: #bbbbbb; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 1.6; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><div class="post-header-line-1"></div></div><div class="post-body entry-content" id="post-body-3813413727192036594" style="background-color: #539bcd; color: #bbbbbb; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; position: relative; width: 590px;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiDQS3dOxrmeMkAyqUXkTD4TimRCDnejTZkWbCxCoRYL2faR9l9h7od9CHxxtBPSh0ISFgc9VgTqA7BCn9Z2ZwbGDrfVCuzT9PfK1HZdE3cpMe6s6xhNvZ2lk-JdCuxJZJ-kOD_2YtwZLo/s1600/stress.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; color: #b87209; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em; text-decoration: none;"><img border="0" height="284" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiDQS3dOxrmeMkAyqUXkTD4TimRCDnejTZkWbCxCoRYL2faR9l9h7od9CHxxtBPSh0ISFgc9VgTqA7BCn9Z2ZwbGDrfVCuzT9PfK1HZdE3cpMe6s6xhNvZ2lk-JdCuxJZJ-kOD_2YtwZLo/s320/stress.jpg" style="border-bottom-style: none; border-color: initial; border-image: initial; border-left-style: none; border-right-style: none; border-top-style: none; border-width: initial; position: relative;" width="320" /></a>I have been at BYU for 4 years now, I am involved in various extracurriculars; I am taking 14.5 credits, I work 20 hours a week, I volunteer, I do research, I am in the presidency of an academic club, and I constantly find myself engaging in new causes. You only live once, and I definitely don't want to miss out on any opportunities--hence why I've decided to go to Italy for three months this summer. I have already been accepted to my graduate program, and I always want to make sure that my priorities are in order. My favorite quote (the one I mention every 3 posts) is to "never let a problem to be solved become more important than a person to be loved." I think I've done a great job at that, but the problem is that there still seem to be a million problems that need solving. Here are a few:<br />
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<ul style="line-height: 1.4; margin-bottom: 0.5em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0.5em; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 2.5em; padding-right: 2.5em; padding-top: 0px;"><li style="margin-bottom: 0.25em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;">Where I am going to live in Italy</li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0.25em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;">Who I am going to live with in Italy</li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0.25em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;">Where I am going to live in Provo once I get back from Italy</li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0.25em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;">Who I am going to live with in Provo</li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0.25em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;">How I am going to handle all my finances for Italy</li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0.25em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;">Finishing up my insurance claim for my car accident that happened over a year ago</li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0.25em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;">How I am going to get caught up in school and confident in all my classes, having dedicated the majority of my time the last two weeks with helping out with BYUSA campaigns</li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0.25em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;">What teachers I am going to work with for my field study, I know I'm working with Dr. Coyne for one class, but I still have to talk with her about the course contract; and I have no idea who I'm going to take the 3rd class with--I still have one more class to finish up for my graduation requirements, which brings up other things I have to worry about</li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0.25em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;">Getting my 20 hours of work in this week</li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0.25em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;">Finding time to meet with Collins, who graciously offered to help me with my Italian class</li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0.25em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;">Finishing up applying for graduation</li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0.25em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;">Buying my cap and gown materials</li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0.25em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;">Paying for my cap and gown materials</li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0.25em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;">Buying a car for next year</li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0.25em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;">Paying for a car for next year</li>
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Explicit Purpose: meaning that both the interviewer and the interviewee know that there is a purpose to the conversation and that the interviewer is looking for somewhat specific information. Having a purpose makes an interview more formal than a friendly conversation and it is expected that the interviewer will guide and direct the conversation.<br />
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<ul><li>Project Explanations: general statements about what the project is about; making sure the interviewee knows what you are looking to learn about</li>
<li>Recording explanations: Letting the interviewee know that you're taking notes or asking them if you can interview them</li>
<li>Native Language Explanations: The purpose of ethonography is to describe a culture in its own terms; so it is important to encourage the interviewee to speak in their native language and speak in the way that they normally would in their culture</li>
<li>Interview Explanation: If you are repeatedly interviewing, it's important to let the interviewee know what will be the purpose of each interview.</li>
<li>Question Explanations: Make sure to explain the purpose of the question and what kind of information you want from the question</li>
</ul><div>Ethnographic Questions</div><div><ol><li><b>Descriptive Questions</b>: enables a person to collect an ongoing sample of an informant's language. Easiest to ask in interviews (i.e. Could you tell me what you do on a regular basis? Could you describe the conference you attended?)</li>
<li><b>Structural Questions</b>: enable the ethnographer to discover information about domains-the basic unit of the interviewee's cultural knowledge. Answer <i>how </i>informants organize their life (i.e. what are the stages of being transferred in this company). These types of questions may be repeated so that interviewee identifies several different activities/examples.</li>
<li><b>Contrast Questions</b>: Interviewer wants to find out what the interviewee <i>means</i> by the various terms they use in their native language</li>
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So, now that you have a pretty detailed background of what I was trying to accomplish for my interview, I will share a little bit about my experience with you. For my part-time job, I work mentoring Freshman and am constantly meeting new students who I interview. I find myself using descriptive most often, structural questions at times, and some variation of a contrast question--I'm usually not trying to decipher what a term means in a different language, but I definitely still have to figure out what certain students mean by various comments, and even specific words, that they say.<br />
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This interview practice was similar in many ways to the ways I conduct my interviews with students, with the main difference being the purpose of my interview, which was learning more about their ideas about gender roles. At the time of my interview, my project wasn't nearly as developed as it is now, and I didn't have the background knowledge that I now realize will be SO INCREDIBLY useful as I decide upon, and ask, my questions. I tried to ask some structural questions, but feel like I didn't truly understand how to ask those questions. The descriptive, and (semi-)contrast questions, however, went very well.<br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg7kfTCB0fIRK3yHIt4QbBh6K4rIBFgfPrCi45UmanG_3tXAxuYJZuQXZoPvy_5SRFfqwL-z3_XJO7nFXhPW_sXmPd8SeJK8kEY8NwVBbbM4HcUSYY2DtKv6djJqKbI_pduW4U74fTt3EE/s1600/interviewing.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="300" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg7kfTCB0fIRK3yHIt4QbBh6K4rIBFgfPrCi45UmanG_3tXAxuYJZuQXZoPvy_5SRFfqwL-z3_XJO7nFXhPW_sXmPd8SeJK8kEY8NwVBbbM4HcUSYY2DtKv6djJqKbI_pduW4U74fTt3EE/s400/interviewing.jpg" width="400" /></a></div>Before conducting the interview, I gave my participant a good idea of what the purpose of the interview would be--to gain a deeper understanding of her views on gender roles. I think this helped establish the formality level of the interview and I asked her if she would mind if I took notes while I interviewed her so that I would be able to remember what she was saying--I feel like that set up a good platform for the interview. I think I did a fairly good job at directing the conversation, but definitely went off on some side tangents; while I think there are definitely benefits to staying 'on topic' I feel that sometimes tangents may lead to richer information, so I don't totally regret that decision. At one point, my participant felt that she had adequately answered the question, and looked at me as if saying 'okay...are we done or are you going to ask me more.' Whereas I felt like I wanted more information on that question. I did end up asking some prodding questions which were helpful and, for the most part, was able to keep the conversation flowing smoothly. I tried to make sure that she was speaking about 80% of the time, and tried to limit what I had to say to about 20% of the time.<br />
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In retrospect, I think that the hardest part of the interview was the conclusion; I wasn't quite sure how to end it or where to end it. I kept it within the time limit that I was planning, which was good, but I think in the field, I will need to have a better set up for this. I am only planning on interviewing each participant once, but I think it would be a good idea to ask them if it would be okay if I contacted them at a later point in case I had any questions. So, my 2nd methods practice was definitely more of a learning experience than anything; I think I did well, but I do think that there is much room for improvement.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633609164447040161noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-939234151687380731.post-31719467152029772572012-03-04T21:10:00.001-08:002012-03-04T21:10:37.958-08:00Parli itliano?<div style="background-color: white; clear: both; color: #666666; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-top: 0.5em; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: left;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUK2TL6PLkGzqTIYLMjR8IpzMoVc2d9LbjzbBD0Jl3sFF97Fsa3LVx-7jpe7YKGe3ome8HoSBvXrCovFo01AZgKYfrAVft8_PhVpvcq2P-Wq-6MniakqmSdkUfxt3xl6ANvASpa4qJAfI/s1600/cash.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUK2TL6PLkGzqTIYLMjR8IpzMoVc2d9LbjzbBD0Jl3sFF97Fsa3LVx-7jpe7YKGe3ome8HoSBvXrCovFo01AZgKYfrAVft8_PhVpvcq2P-Wq-6MniakqmSdkUfxt3xl6ANvASpa4qJAfI/s1600/cash.jpg" /></span></a></div><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Italy is a relatively young country; it was previously made up of city states (now called regions) and each region is quite distinct--with its own personality, dialect and cuisine. I was reading about how what I think is Italian food isn't even served in all regions of Italy. I feel like in Rome, I will definitely get more of the typical <i>Italian Food</i> given that it is a big city and a tourist attraction, but it's good to be prepared when I take a day trip, or look into another part of Italy, to not go to Italy as a complete uninformed tourist who thinks that the stereotypes I've learned about in America hold true everywhere in Italy.</span></div><div style="background-color: white; clear: both; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-top: 0.5em; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="color: #666666;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 17px;">Another thing I was reading about was how things are purchased in Italy--just about everywhere except train stations and hotels prefer..or moreso EXPECT to be paid in cash. It's often viewed at an inconvenience to use your visa to pay for dinner at a restaurant. I definitely use my credit card for EVERYTHING I buy here, so it will be a huge change for me to carry around cash. I'm definitely a bit of a forgetful person, so I'll definitely have to look into ways to keep my cash safe, without looking like a total tourist with a fanny pack...</span></span><br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhp52yBDtDnASivkRdZthiko-EoTz3Ukap3ThlbPvt35N4UcDEHx-GpJYwk4GwzPMU7wo5ulAMcD3foyzmxVB_R2t8HmLDaTdHqTEdy-s0nOhI8VRlFHX2wPcY7hVFvqoE0hjcKttetZeg/s1600/late.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><img border="0" height="160" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhp52yBDtDnASivkRdZthiko-EoTz3Ukap3ThlbPvt35N4UcDEHx-GpJYwk4GwzPMU7wo5ulAMcD3foyzmxVB_R2t8HmLDaTdHqTEdy-s0nOhI8VRlFHX2wPcY7hVFvqoE0hjcKttetZeg/s200/late.jpg" width="200" /></span></a></div><span style="color: #666666;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 17px;">The last thing I was reading about, that I felt like was really interesting about Italy, is how everyone is late for just about everything, and that's not only acceptable, it's expected. Even the trains run late! Not that I would ever show up late for a train ride (because I wouldn't to risk missing it), but it will definitely be a transition for me to purposely show up late, and not feel guilty about it. </span></span><br />
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While there has been some recent debate, the final answer is........Yes!<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg4Xa-6kdg2zT2uOEhn2U5UYpTkshHSbcXDswQ2squmb4JLdeRqOFFoV9j_x47A5oPPUr-o7c09CcKnh9aq1PznsTKw2CR04X4JBfbBs5QXwxQCKo-E1iUeZosKm0CSahnrLmZDegFeYqo/s1600/restrictions.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg4Xa-6kdg2zT2uOEhn2U5UYpTkshHSbcXDswQ2squmb4JLdeRqOFFoV9j_x47A5oPPUr-o7c09CcKnh9aq1PznsTKw2CR04X4JBfbBs5QXwxQCKo-E1iUeZosKm0CSahnrLmZDegFeYqo/s1600/restrictions.jpg" /></a>Honestly, I have been having a lot of doubts lately. I was loosing sight of my purpose as a field study student. I signed up to go on a field study for several reasons, but among those reasons was definitely to be able to go with a group of students. Not that I am at all a dependent person, on the contrary, I have had numerous people comment on the my independence, BUT I guess my concern (for lack of a better word) was that I was paying BYU money, and all I was getting in return: RESTRICTION. Maybe I'll want to travel all around Europe instead of just staying in once place, maybe I'll to live with a member family where I felt safer, maybe I'll not be able to speak the language well enough to complete a quality project. I think the hardest part for me is I'm planning the next three months of my life based on what I THINK I'll want. It's a tough position to be in--I've been out of the country once (To London & Amsterdam) in high school, and I went with a sports team, where our days were planned out and organized. While it was a great experience, it wasn't the kind of travel experience that really gave me a good idea of what I'll want to do this summer. So, how do I make a decision?<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjFX8Ud96MqURrmzfrRiICnDgCJ8QvJWMOqmNJsD9JmF2zG3sBZdorKEe-5HSZF217lEyMnXAosKyqbgO1-BurIKa8sVDA5QnLylHqQQvdpSleqsmcERfNDGyFJuPVY80kJA8a46utCpQs/s1600/refocus.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjFX8Ud96MqURrmzfrRiICnDgCJ8QvJWMOqmNJsD9JmF2zG3sBZdorKEe-5HSZF217lEyMnXAosKyqbgO1-BurIKa8sVDA5QnLylHqQQvdpSleqsmcERfNDGyFJuPVY80kJA8a46utCpQs/s1600/refocus.jpg" /></a>Well, I decided to talk to my field director, Sarah--bless her heart for her patience with me. I told her EVERYTHING I was thinking, my thoughts, concerns, frustrations, and worries. She listened and talked with me for about an hour, and I feel like I was able to rediscover my focus and purpose. A big reason I chose to go to Italy, and not to 7 countries, was because I wanted to really learn about another culture and--now that I think about it--I still do. As far as my project goes, I feel like I will really be able to complete a good project (potentially a bit different than I initially imagined) and not waste my time and energy on something that will flop. I'm not just doing research as an excuse to go, I'm doing the kind of research that I love to do--I get to talk to people, and learn more about their lives! For some reason, I got caught up in the work load I could have, rather than the knowledge I can gain. Yes, I do want to have fun, BUT Yes I also do want to learn. I really feel like a field study gives me a purpose, and I'm glad I've refocused and decided to stick with the program. And hey, I can always travel a bit at the end of my trip :)<br />
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Ciao Bella!Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633609164447040161noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-939234151687380731.post-18940299454599004262012-02-26T20:56:00.000-08:002012-02-26T20:56:24.047-08:00Italian EconomyI recently decided that beyond what I have learned in my humanities classes, and the specific things for my research, I really don't know all that much about Italy. So, I decided to read up on some Italian news.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiYt0EkW9_Mbmm5VgdsrFAYyk3-UcU0qkWSfN6oPxpoVLOpvS9ZljoTNqr245IoQUrBBlxl2VofxiGHpkxZIS54pTKOYg5BkInVeDpkvUn6BQFm_WQ_NtvVBFku-4vJ3JOZBWfGlw0OEXg/s1600/economy+in+europe.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiYt0EkW9_Mbmm5VgdsrFAYyk3-UcU0qkWSfN6oPxpoVLOpvS9ZljoTNqr245IoQUrBBlxl2VofxiGHpkxZIS54pTKOYg5BkInVeDpkvUn6BQFm_WQ_NtvVBFku-4vJ3JOZBWfGlw0OEXg/s400/economy+in+europe.jpg" width="345" /></a>Italy used to be one of the biggest economies in Europe, but is currently experiencing a lot of trouble. Turmoil started in the 1990s, when Asia took over a lot of the countries manufacturing. In 2007, the global financial crisis hit Italy's economy hard; although things were looking up in 2010, it appears that Italy's economy is not going to pull back near top anytime soon. Italy has the second highest debt of all European countries (just following Greece). Italy is the 7th largest economy in the world and now has a "stagnant economy." Most of the debt in Italy is to its own citizens. An article I read was talking about how so much of the problems in business was rooted in the fact that, outside of one's immediate family, there is a huge distrust between individuals, family, and groups. There isn't really any upward mobility in the business world in Italy, so some of the 'best and brightest' citizens are moving to other countries with better opportunities, and immigrants of the same caliber and not moving in or replacing them. Taxes are being raised and cuts to local governments is becoming increasingly more common.<br />
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I'd heard a lot of things here and there about the Italian economy, but I would have to say that I didn't know the extent of it until I read this article. I wonder how this affects day to day life for Italian citizens, and even for tourists...?<br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiILFBojO_AGes5eOUhOrpk8zMFfl1TeEv3vImHmzufCJs6Swl9rPBWlOOSbS2Y19_S9z51ZCoIQ-pTxDuMDNJomhbSyDq7AZ6JFSnlY-0ucyfkknJDKyx_w8Jogs7QB0nQjGtwhg0jtE4/s1600/mom+childd.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiILFBojO_AGes5eOUhOrpk8zMFfl1TeEv3vImHmzufCJs6Swl9rPBWlOOSbS2Y19_S9z51ZCoIQ-pTxDuMDNJomhbSyDq7AZ6JFSnlY-0ucyfkknJDKyx_w8Jogs7QB0nQjGtwhg0jtE4/s320/mom+childd.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>One girl, Robyn, went to India to interview women about the social and physical effects that HIV has on them and their families. She interviewed 10 women and also facilitated a focus group. I was actually surprised by the small number of women she was able to interview--having majored in psychology, we always put so much emphasis on a large quantity of participants in research. That said, I feel like she still had a lot of informative and good things to say from the data she did gather. I don't know, I guess it's just giving me a better/different feel for what a field study entails... The other thing that I thought was interesting was when she, talking about mothers in India, said "women want to make sure that their children are taken care of." I feel like although her statement was referring to mothers in India, it actually described most mothers around the world--including Italy. I think a potential reason that you adults continue to live at home in Italy is because their mothers want the best for them, and if that means supporting them for a few more years, that's what they do.<br />
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The other girl that spoke, Hailey, talked about how it was hard to understand a different culture from the perspective of someone in that culture because they treat you differently based on the fact that you are a foreigner. I'm excited, but I guess the more I learn, the less sure I am of what to expect...Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633609164447040161noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-939234151687380731.post-61012885236767522342012-02-21T21:23:00.000-08:002012-02-21T21:23:57.966-08:00When in Rome...<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">"When in Rome, do as the Romans do." Sounds easy enough, but it would definitely help to know what exactly the Romans do... While I think I'll definitely learn most when I'm actually living in Rome, submerged in the culture, I figured it wouldn't help to figure out some of the basic tips right now.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I think my Italian language class has been quite helpful, while I wish I'd been taking Italian since my freshman year, I figure that it's better late than never. At least I'll have a semi-solid language base to jump from when I get to Italy. I'm learning the basics and the grammar now, and hope that when I'm in a country where I'm forced to use them, I'll learn quickly. So, the language, I'm working on. But there are still some other things that I want to get down so that I'm not THAT tourist who sticks out like a sore thumb.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">1. Italians are typically loud, enthusiastic people and they speak with their hands; the idea of a person bubble in Italy is a foreign concept. They love talking to people, and aren't afraid to stare..</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">2. Style is extremely important to Romans, and it's important to follow their dress code. Your best bet is to dress conservatively and to always be classy--wearing shorts and a T-shirt to a restaurant is unacceptable.</span><br />
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1. Throwing a coin into the Trevi Fountain<br />
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2. Joining an audience with the Pope at the Vatican and then wandering through St Peter's Basilica, and seeing Michelangelo's frescos in the Sistine Chapel<br />
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3. See the Pantheon<br />
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4. Take a Gondola Ride!<br />
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I am thankful for Google for making it so easy for me to search out amazing things about Italy.<br />
For future reference, these are some of the sites I thought would be good to know about!<br />
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20 Great Things to do in Rome<br />
<a href="http://www.timeout.com/rome/features/51/20-great-things-to-do-in-rome">http://www.timeout.com/rome/features/51/20-great-things-to-do-in-rome</a><br />
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Things to Do in Rome<br />
<a href="http://www.italylogue.com/things-to-do-in-rome">http://www.italylogue.com/things-to-do-in-rome</a> <br />
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Top 25 Attractions and Things<br />
<a href="http://opentravel.com/Things-To-Do-In-Italy-Attractions">http://opentravel.com/Things-To-Do-In-Italy-Attractions</a> <br />
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Do Something Different In Italy<br />
<a href="http://www.dosomethingdifferent.com/destinations/italy">http://www.dosomethingdifferent.com/destinations/italy</a>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633609164447040161noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-939234151687380731.post-41595722511178854362012-02-17T13:30:00.000-08:002012-02-17T13:32:24.562-08:00Gelato<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjO_rH_WQd8XDYg4ahU0ijnRQt3WYjPqyeXEN4IMJTTBKGgn38E6ncJYILdLCRxKUy6fZVumLzX4ADhRpDH5a_ThR6kCvTb_bt73bKjpJgWMiwHW7woauwlLxVc8azMXtn9upxhPmHBDjg/s1600/gelato.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="300" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjO_rH_WQd8XDYg4ahU0ijnRQt3WYjPqyeXEN4IMJTTBKGgn38E6ncJYILdLCRxKUy6fZVumLzX4ADhRpDH5a_ThR6kCvTb_bt73bKjpJgWMiwHW7woauwlLxVc8azMXtn9upxhPmHBDjg/s400/gelato.jpg" width="400" /></a></div>Why am I going to Italy? Because I want a <b>gelato</b> everyday! Gelato was first served in ancient Rome and made from mountain snow, and now it is a refined frozen treat--similar to ice cream (but better!). There are countless numbers of flavors--if I really wanted to, I bet I could eat a different flavor everyday that I'm in Rome. While gelato is typically flavored using fresh fruit purees, cocoa, and nut pastes (thank you Wikipedia), it can also include other ingredients like chocolate, nuts, confections, cookies, and biscuits. There are so many good options, that I'm really not sure which one to try first, which ones which ones to eat more of, and which ones--if any--that I should avoid altogether (probably just coffee)--maybe I'll just get too overwhelmed by the possibilities that I won't eat anything. While that is highly doubtful, it does bring up a term I want to discuss called, option overload--which is the real purpose of this post (in case you didn't pick up on my sarcasm with the gelato, though I am excited about it:). But back to option overload--the name is pretty self explanatory, but I'll elaborate on it anyway by referring to a fairly recent study that my friend Dave, who is in the business school, told me about.<br />
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A team of researchers decided to study how individuals react to and make decisions when they have 1) few options, or 2) many options. In the study, they sold jams. The first day of the study, they set out 20+ samples of jam and allowed potential buyers to sample as many flavors as they wanted. The second day, researchers only set out 2 or 3 samples of jams for potential buyers. The findings: sales skyrocked on the second day--the day with fewer options. Why didn't individuals buy more jam on the day when they had more options? <b>OPTION OVERLOAD</b>. See, although most people believe, "the more options, the better," in actuality, most people can't make up their mind when this is the case. Rather than weighing the pros and cons of all the options, most people can't deal with the pressure of coming to a decision, so....they don't--they choose to not choose anything, rather than taking a risk and making the wrong choice. This is true in so many different aspects of life, including my field study.<br />
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Luckily, I've already decided that I'm going to Italy and I know what the basic tenets of my study, but I really do have so many remaining options--the main one I'm debating over now is what questions I will ask those individuals that I study. There are so many good options! I could, of course, ask every single question that comes to my mind, but for the sake of my study--and my sanity--I won't. I am in the process of deciding, but I think my best bet is to keep the questions simple, let individuals elaborate on them, and ask follow up questions as the situation allows. Narrowing down my options is hard, but I think minimizing my options will help me, and I'll be able down to narrow down the questions. I'd rather learn a lot about a more specific thing, then try to divide my attention on too many things and not gain a deep understanding of any of them.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633609164447040161noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-939234151687380731.post-12234665371640234732012-02-15T14:57:00.000-08:002012-02-15T14:57:17.420-08:00Happiness<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgSELy0QnqtQ7nYilqAgYr3f22RAJT10l2troL0riINFAussh46qCrbFDwBjL3YPGo7fDEc7Tpfu0OaBonFGsABsX6v1PZKrZQUdDutlXP57YgtnFQDbd_qUMi2FmZup2xBu0GBRNFDcKQ/s1600/happier.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgSELy0QnqtQ7nYilqAgYr3f22RAJT10l2troL0riINFAussh46qCrbFDwBjL3YPGo7fDEc7Tpfu0OaBonFGsABsX6v1PZKrZQUdDutlXP57YgtnFQDbd_qUMi2FmZup2xBu0GBRNFDcKQ/s1600/happier.jpg" /></a></div>I am reading a book called <i>Happier ILern the Secrets to Daily Joy and Lasting Fulfillment) </i>by Tal Ben-Shahar. I may have mentioned it before in my blog (?), but it is a positive psychology book and I just got done with part 1 of the book, entitled: "What is Happiness?" It discusses the question of happiness, reconciling present and future, it explains happiness, talks about "the ultimate currency," and finally ends with goal setting--the aspect of the book that I'd like to focus on now.<br />
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I have been setting goals from the time I could use a glue stick and stick a magazine cut-out to a posterboard (thank you mom:), I have refined my goal setting techniques throughout years of experience, and a big part of my job now--as a Freshman Mentor--is to help others set goals. As I prepare to go to Italy, I find myself setting goals once more, but this time it's a little more difficult because my ultimate goal is a little illusive, which makes setting short term goals a little less productive. I want to set goals that make me happy in the present and in the future, specifically about my field study. But how do I do that? This book helped me put things in perspective.<br />
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David Mayers and Ed Diener claimed that,<br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"><i>Happiness grows less from passive experience of desirable circumstances than from involvement in valued activities and progress toward one's goal.</i></div><i><br />
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In a big sense, this means that to be happy, we need to be progressing, and one of the best ways to progress is by setting goals.<br />
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Some facts about goals:<br />
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<ul><li>People who set goals are more likely to succeed than people who do not--it's important to have a clear timeline and performance criteria when setting goals</li>
<li>Goals communicate to ourselves and to others, the belief that we are capable of overcoming obstacles</li>
<li>Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chances to draw back; always ineffectiveness</li>
<li>A goal, an explicit commitment, focuses our attention on the target and helps us to find ways to get there</li>
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</div><div>The best goals are "meaningful and the journey they take us on needs to be pleasurable for them to bring about significant increase in our happiness." We can do this by pursing goals that involve <b>growth, connection and contribution</b>, not ones that involve money, beauty, and popularity; and goals that are <b>interesting and important to us</b>, rather than ones that we feel we should or need to do. When I decided to go on a field study, I really felt that I should make sure to do a project that would result in me publishing a paper--so, my goal was to get published. I've come a long way from there. While that is a worthy goal, and I do want to publish in my near future, I feel like my connection to the Italy people and my growth as an individual will make me happier while I'm in the field, and will also lead to me being a better person in my future. As I train to be a therapist, research is important (I've mentioned this before), but my connection with people and ability to help them in their lives is crucial, and more important (in my opinion) in the grad scheme of things. As my favorite quote says,</div><div><br />
</div><div style="text-align: center;"><i>Never let a problem to be solved become more important that a person to be helped."</i></div><div style="text-align: center;">-Thomas S. Monson</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br />
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</tbody></table><div style="text-align: left;"><b>My ultimate goal</b>: To always be progressing towards becoming a better person and reaching untapped levels of potential</div><div style="text-align: left;"><b>How Italy can help me with this</b>: Broadening my horizons by learning about a different culture--learning their language, their customs, their beliefs, and how they view the world</div><div style="text-align: left;"><b>How I can incorporate this into a field study</b>: Making my first priority to be to <i>know</i> the people, I am more interested in getting to know people as individuals--details about them specifically, rather than to try and gather information on a group to find norms. I think I will definitely be able to pull out similarities among individuals, but I still want to respect the individual above the task, or even the 'group.' I think that will help me progress towards my ultimate goal, and I am quite positive that it will make me happy in both the short or long term because I am enjoying the process of reaching my goal, as much as I will enjoy reaching the actual goal! Ah the beauty and simplicity of setting goals. I know I will have to get more specific, but I think this is a good jumping off point. :)</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08633609164447040161noreply@blogger.com0